Does any of this sound familiar?
You've had 47 tabs open about that trip you want to take, and closed them all without booking anything.
You keep waiting for a friend to commit, and they keep cancelling.
You want to go but you don't know where to start, what's safe, how to do it alone, or what people will think.
So you wait. And wait.
And watch everyone else's travel photos and tell yourself - maybe next year.
Here's the truth: next year is just this year with more excuses.
I'm Amanda Wynands
I've traveled to 17 countries over 20 years - mostly alone. I've rebuilt my life from scratch in 6 cities across 4 countries. I moved to Australia, New York, Boston, and Denver by myself with nothing but a suitcase and a plan I figured out as I went.
Nobody handed me a guide. Nobody told me how to do it. I just said yes and worked it out.
I also wrote a book about it: Nobody's Watching You Eat: A Memoir of Solo Travel and Self-Trust
Because I wanted women to know that the hardest part isn't the trip. It's believing you can do it before you have any proof that you can.
That's exactly what Book The Damn Flight is designed to give you.
Book The Damn Flight
A 3-month solo travel confidence program
Weeks 1-2: Getting clear on your why and handling the people around you
Weeks 3-4: Building confidence and choosing where to go
Weeks 5-6: Planning, booking, and packing without the spiral
Week 7: Safety, street smarts, and trusting your gut
Week 8: Meeting people and building community on the road
Weeks 9-10: When things go wrong and the emotional side nobody talks about
Weeks 11-12: Final preparation, debrief, and what's next
Everything You Get
Every week includes:
→ A 1-on-1 call with me (60 minutes)
→ Homework to complete before our next session
→ Access to my full library of solo travel guides and resources
→ My direct support between calls when you need it
Resources included:
→ First Solo Trip Planning Workbook
→ How To Travel Without Losing Your Sh*t
→ Solo Travel Safety and Confidence Toolkit
→ Travel Confidence Scripts and Phrases
→ The Brave Girls Guide to Making Friends While Traveling Solo
→ How To Tell Your Family You're Leaving
→ 30 Days of Self Trust Prompts
→ 30 Day Countdown Calendar
→ And everything I create between now and when you finish
This is your invitation
Right now I'm opening 5 Founding Member spots
As a Founding Member you get the full 3-month program at half the regular investment - $1,500 USD instead of $3,000. This price will never be available again.
In exchange I ask for your honest feedback and a testimonial at the end.
There are 5 spots. That's it.
Your questions, answered.
Q: What if I've never traveled solo before?
A: That's exactly who this is for. You don't need experience, you need a plan and someone to walk you through it.
Q: What if I don't know where I want to go yet?
A: We figure that out together in Week 4. That's literally what it's there for.
Q: How do the calls work?
A: We meet once a week via Zoom for 60 minutes. You bring your questions, your homework, and your fears. I bring everything I know.
Q: What if I can't make a call?
A: Life happens. We reschedule. Simple.
Q: Is this only for young women?
A: Absolutely not. Solo travel has no age limit and neither does this program.
Q: What if I start and it's not right for me?
A: Book a discovery call first. That call is free, there's no pressure, and we both get to decide if it's the right fit before any money changes hands.
You don't need a travel partner.
You need confidence.
And you're in exactly the right place to find it.